I was interested in this subject after hearing all the things that happen these days on bachelor and bachelorette "events" - and family members Ross and Megan, who have themselves have had plenty of experience themselves and with others agreed to join in. I did some research into some of the many strange and sometimes extreme things that people get up to, although the worst ones are not in this song. This is supposed to be a light-hearted song about a tradition which can be a lot of fun, but also a big problem for some of the places where they take place.